Ask RSVP

In over 20 years of creating amazing vacations for gays and lesbians, we've been asked a lot of questions. Some expected, others less so. And while we'd love to include them all, we thought we'd start with the most common ones. If you've still got a nagging question that isn't answered here, please ask away-via email or just pick up the phone and call 1.800.328.RSVP.

About RSVP Vacations

Why should I choose RSVP over other gay travel companies?

Because on each and every trip we offer an incredible variety of activities, the most diverse crowd, the friendliest and most experienced staff, and the most welcoming environment. But don't take our word for it, watch a trip video or get word of mouth testimonials from past RSVP Vacations travelers. And, if that still isn't enough, try drinking three coconut sakitinis and call us in the morning.

What does it mean to be a gay friendly, gay welcoming vacation company?

It means we don't care who you sleep with, what you look like or how you dress. It means you can feel free to express your inner and outer gayness in a welcoming and embracing environment. It means you can hold hands with your boyfriend or girlfriend in public or wear your favorite sarong to dinner.

About RSVP cruises

I've never been on a cruise before, how can I be sure I'll like it?

Some people worry that there won't be enough to do, others think they'll be too much structure. Well, we're here to set you straight (metaphorically speaking). A cruise ship is like a small bustling city on the water. There are spas, gyms, stores, pools, restaurants, theaters, bars and more. So, you can go to the movies, hang out by the pool, take a jog, have a great meal and it's all right outside your door. Plus, the boat stops at incredible ports where you can continue your adventure on land. The best part is, it's all up to you. Choose to do it all or nothing at all.

The thought of hundreds or in some cases thousands of gays on a boat is somewhat overwhelming...does it really feel that way?

No. Well, yes and no. Yes, the boat is full of gays. No, they are not all raging queens. Sure some people may spend the whole trip taking advantage of the party scene but many others are taking advantage of the incredible variety of activities. Whether you want to rage all night and sleep all day or you want to sleep all night and engage all day...there's plenty to choose from.

I've heard that some of these cruises are basically one non-stop circuit party on water. What if I don't want that? What if I do?

None of our vacations could be considered a non-stop circuit party. That said, we do have lots of very fun parties for you to attend. Check out some of our upcoming trips to see what's right for you.

How many different kinds of cruises do you have?

We have grand ocean liners like Queen Mary 2, smaller cruise ships like the ms Amsterdam, sleek sail ships like the sv Royal Clipper, and even smaller, intimate European riverboats like the River Empress.

What are the accommodations like?

Like men, the accommodations vary by size...and in this case, also by price. All RSVP ships are considered premium properties with top quality amenities. To find out more, go to the ship section of each vacation.

About RSVP land vacations

How do your land vacations differ from your cruises?

Other than the obvious fact that you'll have both feet on the ground at all times, we take the same care in creating the perfect land vacation as we do with our cruises. And that means you can expect quality accommodations, interesting people, helpful staff, and exciting destinations-all in a safe and welcoming environment.

About RSVP travelers

Describe the typical RSVP Vacations traveler?

First of all, there really isn't a typical RSVP Vacations traveler. We attract a wide range of people-young and old, single and coupled, tan and un-tanned, body beautiful and body normal. At RSVP Vacations everyone fits in...unless of course you're homophobic, which we're guessing you're not since you've gotten this far. All kidding aside, most of our travelers don't pack any attitude...just Speedo's®, flip-flops and other accessories.

Are women welcome on RSVP Vacations?

Yes. We love women. (And who wouldn't). In fact, lesbians are not only welcome but encouraged to travel with RSVP Vacations. Currently, lesbians from across the country and around the world represent approximately 10% of every trip, and we'd love to see that percentage rise.

Are non-gays welcome, too?

Maybe. Non-gays are welcome if they are not threatened by the homosexually-charged environment in which they will represent a minority (for a change).

I'm in a new relationship with a great guy. If we travel on one of these trips will I be in constant fear of someone trying to steal him?

While we have a strict no stealing policy when it comes to boyfriends, we can't always enforce it. But all joking aside, many of our guests who are traveling with a significant other find the atmosphere friendly but not threatening.

What if I'm traveling solo?

Then, you'll be in great company. RSVP Vacations goes out of its way to make singles feel totally comfortable. We have singles mixers, singles dining rooms, room mate matching services and a group of single cute, successful, friendly guys and gals to keep you busy.

What if I have special needs?

We bend over backwards (pun intended) to help individuals with special needs to have a fantastic time on an RSVP Vacations trip. So, if you have any medical and or mobility needs, specific dietary requirements, ASL (American Sign Language) needs, or other requests, simply let us know. And please do so no less than 90 days prior to trip departure so we can make sure all your needs are met.

About booking

Can I book a trip directly with RSVP?

Absolutely. All you have to do is go to Book Now. If you have any questions we have a well-trained staff with sexy voices to help you. Or you can call your favorite travel agent. Click here to find a travel agent near you.

What's included in the price of my vacation?

The price of your trip includes accommodations (on the ship or resort) for the duration of the scheduled itinerary, all meals including room service (cruises only), basic beverages (coffee, tea and iced tea), all entertainment and RSVP activities. Please note that land excursions on cruises are extra.

What's not included in the price of my vacation?

The price of your trip does not include airfare, transfers, shore excursions, alcoholic beverages, soft drinks, some specialty coffee drinks, spa treatments. Port taxes and gratuities are not included in the price of the trip but have already been added to your reservation as reflected on your invoice.

Do you help with the booking of airfare and hotels before and after a trip?

While we can't help you directly with the booking of your airfare and hotels, we do offer special deals and promotions. Before you make your plans, check out the Activities & Options section for each destination. Wherever possible RSVP Vacations tries to arrange attractive pre and post trip extensions including hotel and activities.

Do you help find roommates? How does that work?

Yes, we're happy to help you find an appropriate roommate at no additional charge. And just so you know, we don't use the dartboard method when trying to select an appropriate roomy for you. We try to take into consideration a variety of factors including smoking preference. There are share rooms available in the categories listed on each program and are subject to availability.

What are my payment options?

We take VISA, MasterCard, Discover, American Express, and checks. Please no cash, unmarked bills or third party out of state checks. We require an initial deposit when you book your trip with an additional deposit due 180 days before the trip. Full payment is due 90 days prior to the trip.

Once I've booked my trip, where can I find more specific trip information?

In a new, specially designated section of our website called Traveler Resources. You should also bookmark the itinerary page of your specific trip because whenever we book a new act or activity, it shows up there first. Like voting, we suggest coming early and often.

Are there any advantages to booking early?

The main advantage is choice of accommodation. Plus you'll have more time to get excited, flaunt your good fortune and invite your friends to come along.